Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Travis and I are going to be FATHER- AND MOTHER-IN-LAW!!!!

Been anticipating when this would be "official" for a good long while now!
So excited!  So happy!  So thankful Rebekah is marrying a Godly young man who wants to serve the Lord.

So gorgeous!  Caleb has great taste!

They have "officially" known each other for almost 2 years.  Caleb's mom and I actually met years ago when Rebekah was about 5 years old and Caleb about 7, I guess.  We were in a homeschool group together.  I remember meeting this lady that had several cute little boys!  Neither of us were in that group for very long, and I'm sure we both skipped some meetings.  And by the time we were to meet up again, there would be 7 children.  5 boys (4 teens) and 2 girls.  Hehe, made me think of the 5 loaves and 2 fishes.  Wonder if Caleb's little sisters would object to being called fish?  lol.

But on September 3 of 2011, Caleb and Rebekah were at the same church meeting at the same time.  I always say to be where God wants you to be, and you'll meet the right one!  You'll meet a lot of the right people, because those are the ones who are where God wants them to be!
They didn't see each other again until some time the next month, but they were quickly smitten. ;)  They had found out that Caleb's family and my girls and niece (The Hawks Trio) were singing ♪♫ at the same revival on different nights.  So they figured it out for each of our families to come on both nights so they could see each other again.
And it's been that way ever since.  If there is a revival or youth meeting near enough to attend, chances are both of our families, or at least our family and Caleb and some of his brothers, will be at that meeting! 😊


So yesterday...  Caleb and Rebekah are going to be doing the music for the Bible School at Caleb's church, and Rebekah still needed to practice a few of the more tricky songs from Patch the Pirate.  If you know anything about their songs, you'll know you can be humming along and you may go one way and the song will go another!  So Caleb's mom asked that the girls come over to their house to go over those songs again.  Afterwards, several of the boys and girls went walking down the gravel road on the pretense that my girls could meet some friends that lived down that way.  Then they came upon this in the road:


Awww!  The kids always say that finding a penny means, "God loves you." Caleb gave Rebekah the penny and told her, "God loves you..." and knelt down and finished, "...and I love you too!" ♥  He had never actually said the words before.
She put her hand over her mouth, eyes big.  She finally managed, "Is this for real?"
He assured her it was for real!  Then he pulled out the ring.  "Rebekah Anne Hawks, will you marry me?"
He barely got the words out before she answered, "YES!"  Followed by, "Oh, my soul!" and moments later, "It's so beautiful!"  Then she asked, "Are you serious?" still not quite believing this was really happening!  lol.  She totally had not suspected a thing!  😊
This was the first time they told each other "I love you." ♥♥♥  Oh, they had hinted around about it forever, but she was waiting for him to say it first, and knew he wanted to give her a ring first.
They were on Cloud 9, let me tell you!  Still are.  Well, I guess they have been for quite a while already, haha!

One of Caleb's brothers, Ethan, was videoing, and I was able to pull a couple of shots from that:

"Rebekah Anne Hawks, will you marry me?"  (Duh!) heehee
       See the heart in the road? ↑ 😊


"Show me the ring"

►You can watch the proposal here.


Travis and I were just down the road, waiting for the final text from Isaac, another of Caleb's brothers, to tell us it was okay to come on.  We didn't want to arrive too early and make Rebekah wonder why we were there.


back at the house

Then followed pictures, phone calls, excitement from everyone!  The younger kids were especially excited.  The youngest said, "But that's your marriage finger!" and it had to be explained why an engagement ring goes on the marriage finger when you're still not married yet. 😊






And Caleb's little brother Gideon gathered up the rocks and put them in this container. These are the "love rocks," as he calls them.  So sweet.  =)


Needless to say, facebook has been a flurry of beeps all day from notifications -- of comments to posts I've been tagged in, or have commented on, or have posted myself.
Such excitement!  😄


Apple Festival, October, 2012

after singing at the Wilkes County rest home

See Abi making a ♥ in the background! =)

Rebekah's 18th birthday

at Caleb's house

at Rebekah's house

♥ ♥ ♥

sMiLeS,

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Value, Worth, Love, Sacrifice

When work you have done is carelessly undone by someone else, it can be quite frustrating.
This morning my kids were getting ready to go to a campmeeting that we'd only learned about last night, so nothing had been ironed, and everyone was hurrying.  One of my kids asked me to iron some things for them, so I ironed them then laid them carefully across the bed so as not to cause wrinkles.
Then this child decided to wear something different and changed clothes.  But instead of hanging up the clothing I had ironed, or even spreading them out on the bed, I later discovered the clothes carelessly thrown into a pile and thoroughly wrinkled.
I was quite annoyed to say the least.
Those clothes had already been ironed!  If not now, at least keep them nice so that they could be worn another day.
But I still love my child.  I admit it took awhile for me to really feel that love once again, lol, but I did!  =D

When we go the extra mile to do something for someone, and they give it no value, have complete disregard for the work you did, it isn't fun.  We feel like saying, "Fine!  See if I do anything for you again!"

I'm so glad God isn't like that.
He gave his only Son to die for you.
For you!
He suffered a severe beating, a crown made of thorns was forced onto his head, and then He was nailed to a cross.  Nailed right through his hands and feet to hold him there, hanging, struggling for every breath.
Jesus Christ, who is sinless and perfect, took on your sin and my sin, and suffered that humiliation which was worse than the physical pain so that your sins would be paid for.  So that you could go to heaven.
Because he loves you.

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The price for your sins is already paid for.
Are you going to reject that?  Will you carelessly throw away what God has done for you?
Something already paid for,  a gift just waiting for you to accept.
Waiting for another day might work for ironed clothing, but not necessarily for salvation.  You don't know how much longer you have on this earth, and you don't want to wait until it's too late!
Jesus Christ sacrificed his life for you!  Please don't disregard what He did for you!

I am planning to attend an event in a few weeks to commemorate the homegoing (to heaven) of two young children who were both killed in an accident involving a drunk driver.  I'm sure that father never even thought of what would happen as he buckled his children in that day.

You don't have the assurance that you will be alive even an hour from now.
Please don't wait until it's too late!



How to accept Jesus Christ as your Saviour, and your only way to Heaven:

Do you know Christ as your personal Savior?
Have you ever received the Lord Jesus Christ into your life?

Realize That God Loves You
God loves you and has a plan for your life. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16

The Bible Says That All Men Are Sinners
Our sins have separated us from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23
God made man in His own image. He gave man the ability to choose right from wrong. We choose to sin. Our sins keep us from God.

God’s Word Also Says That Sin Must Be Paid For
“For the wages of sin is death....” Romans 6:23
Wages means payment. The payment of our sin is death and hell, separation from God forever. If we continue in our sin, we shall die without Christ and be without God forever.

The Good News Is That Christ Paid For Our Sins
All of our sins were laid on Christ on the cross. He paid our sin debt for us. The Lord Jesus Christ died on the cross, and He arose from the dead. He is alive forevermore.
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8

We Must Personally Pray And Receive Christ By Faith
The Bible says, “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”Romans 10:13

New Life
Everlasting life begins when we receive Christ as our Savior.





Plan of Salvation copy/pasted from ThisGenerationForChrist.org

Friday, June 21, 2013

Forgiveness

"Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud wrath."
Proverbs 21:23-24

Do you rehash things in your mind, dwelling on what you'd like to say to someone?
**What is in your heart will come out.**

I have been thinking of someone... who did something, or rather forgot to do something.   And probably doesn't realize it and/or has forgotten.  So I need to just get on with life and forgive them because it is kind of petty anyway when you consider it.
Seems like the past couple of weeks I just keep seeing verses in Proverbs that are telling me to forgive... and lots of verses about the tongue!
So I need to quit dwelling on it before I say something I will regret.

"Only by pride cometh contention..."  Prov. 13:10
"In the mouth of the foolish is a rod of pride..."  Prov. 14:3
"In the multitude of words there wanted not sin, but he that refraineth his lips is wise." Prov 10:19










"He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him."
Proverbs 18:13  (Just thought I'd tack that on.)   =)


sMiLeS,

Monday, June 10, 2013

My Babies are 16!

I love them so much.  I can't believe they're this old!

A couple of months ago


About 15+ years ago!


A couple of weeks ago.  Hehe!

sMiLeS,

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

This was fun!

I love algebra!  Seems I've forgotten quite a bit since I graduated (ahem!) 23 years ago... but it's still fun, and I love re-learning it.
And some I don't even remember learning at all, lol!

Today was especially fun:

Graphing Linear Equations with Slope-Intercept (videos)
(About the block of wood the dry erase board is sitting in.)

sMiLeS,

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

I Will Give My Life... To Count For Jesus

These two songs have spoken to me many times in the past year.  I've posted them on my blog before, but just really wanted to share them again.



♪♫I Will Give My Life

I will give my life unto the Lord, I will give myself unto His word. All that He has granted unto me shall be His own. (!)  He is Oh, so worthy of the best, I will serve through His own righteousness.  All the Glory give to Jesus' name and His alone.

I will give my heart unto the Lord, I will give my hopes for God to fill. All that I desire, all my dreams, shall be His own. He is Oh, so worthy of this rest, I will wait through His own righteousness.  All the Glory give to Jesus' name and His alone.

I will give my lips unto His praise, I will fix my eyes upon His gaze. All my reverence, all that I adore, shall be His own. He is Oh, so worthy to be blessed, I will worship His own righteousness. All the Glory give to Jesus' name and His alone.

I will give my life unto the Lord,
                          I will give my heart unto the Lord,
I will give myself unto His word.
                      I will give my hope for God to fill.
All that He has granted unto me shall be His own.
                       All that I desire... shall be His own.
He is, Oh, so worthy of the best,
                    He is, Oh, so worthy of this rest,
I will serve through His .............................own righteousness. 
                               I will wait through His own righteousness.
All the Glory give to Jesus Name………….….and His alone.
                     All the Glory give to Jesus Name …..….lone.
 Tag: All the Glory give to Jesus Christ the Lord and Him alone.





♪ ♫ To Count For Jesus 

All want their lives to count for something;
To leave their mark when life is through.
But vain pursuits will count for nothing:
Time will erase what ‘ere we do.

I want my life to count for Jesus,
For earthly things will quickly fade.
No need to add to worldly riches;
I only seek eternal gain.

Inside my heart there burned a question,
What was I placed on earth here for?
It truly was to build a kingdom;
Not of my own but of the Lord’s.

I want my life to count for Jesus,
For earthly things will quickly fade.
No need to add to worldly riches;
I only seek eternal gain.





What are your goals?







Originally posted at: To Build A Kingdom, Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary, How Does Your Garden Grow?, and Do You REALLY Want to Be Like Him???


Monday, March 4, 2013

Run!

Proverbs 4:15
"Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away."

Sounds like when we're trying to avoid someone in the grocery store, doesn't it?  There are times we are in a hurry and too busy to talk, and you just know that person loves to talk!  Or maybe it really is someone we want to avoid. =(
But I'm sure we've all been there.

"Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away."

We teach our children to not talk to strangers, watch out for stray dogs, stay out of the woods unless I'm with you, stay where I can see you, and a host of other similar admonitions.
But when it comes to our own lives, sometimes we allow things in.  Sometimes its an attitude, or anger towards someone.  Those things we can hide pretty well in public if we're good at it.
We allow a few exceptions in music, or in television shows or movies, and before you know it, one day you look back and realize you would never used to watch that type of show or movie.
We tend to excuse things by saying they're not so bad, and we think we can handle it.
We let a little sin in, and allow it to grow.  How?  We think about it first.  We may wrestle with it awhile before we eventually reason that it isn't so bad, and the cost will be minimal.
We eventually do what we think about!  But sin will grow.

"Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away."

That means don't even consider or regard it! Stay away at all costs.  Or it will cost you.                            

As the Patch the Pirate song "Put on Your Running Shoes" says, "Don't stop to take a closer look!" (lyrics, youtube video)
I remember a song from when I was a child, "Never Smile at a Crocodile."  Some of the lyrics are, "Never smile at a crocodile; never tip your hat or stop to talk awhile.  Don't be taken in by his welcome grin; he's imagining how well you'll fit within his skin!"
I Peter 5:8 says, "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour."  
Whom he may devour!
If you're lagging at the back of the pack, so to speak, the lion will get you.  He always goes after the weak prey.
Stay strong by reading your Bible daily and listening to good preaching, then applying to your life what you've read and heard.  Pray all day about little things and big things; keep your communication with God constant.  Be accountable to someone else.  Keep check on each other as to what you've read in your Bible each day.
Run from temptation and toward God!


sMiLeS,

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Prompting or Punishment?

I have been reading about the children of Israel, and the judgments that God had to inflict on them.  Most of them seemed pretty harsh, but they just would not listen!  They would come about and begin to obey Him again, but before you know it, they were right back in sin.  So finally He let them be led away captive for 70 years!

This morning I read an article by Dr. Paul Chappell entitled Requiring Punishment.
Part of the article said,
"Isaiah gives us a fascinating insight into God’s chastisement of His children. “For the fitches are not threshed with a threshing instrument, neither is a cart wheel turned about upon the cummin; but the fitches are beaten out with a staff, and the cummin with a rod. Bread corn is bruised; because he will not ever be threshing it, nor break it with the wheel of his cart, nor bruise it with his horsemen” (Isaiah 28:27-28).
Delicate plants like fitches—a herb used for seasoning food—were not threshed because the heavy tool would crush them. But the thicker grains used for making bread went under the tribulum [a threshing instrument].
 When our hearts are soft and we quickly listen to God’s Word, we do not require judgment to remind us to do right. When our hearts are hard and our ears refuse to listen, God is able to get our attention, though we will certainly not find that process enjoyable. God calibrates our circumstances based on what is required to get us to obey.
If we are responsive to the prompting of the Holy Spirit and the instruction of Scripture, we will save ourselves much heartache."
This is so true!  When our hearts are ready to listen, it only takes a small bit of prompting by the Holy Spirit to make a change.  That still, small voice can only be heard when we are listening.  I know we've all seen that in our children as well.  Some children listen better than others, and when they don't, we often need to administer a more stern punishment.

Stay in the Word of God daily, and ask him to show you something from what you read.  Be searching as you read.  Read for understanding.  Find a quiet place and block out everything around you.  Early in the morning before everyone else gets up is best for me, and I like to write down in a notebook the verses that speak to me.  Don't have your cell phone or other distractions near.
I do keep a sheet of paper handy because there is always something popping into my mind that I need to do that day, so I just jot it down rather than dwelling on it.  I think this is more distracting for women, because we don't have the focus men have.  Our minds are constantly thinking of the cares of the day, and it can be a hindrance when we are concentrating on something the devil would rather us not.

So get in your Bible early!
Before it is "too late" and things start needing to be tended to and the phone starts ringing!

sMiLeS,

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

"Love and Honor"




"Marriages do not usually collapse suddenly. Instead they fall due to a long process of erosion..."
Read more here.

The verse right at the beginning of the article got me.
I had just this morning been kind of implying that my husband was wrong about something.  Just a little dig, you know.  Like we women can do.
But those little things can cause great hurt.  We all know how that feels.  And I felt so bad that I just had to call him and apologize.  Even though he didn't say much back to me when I uttered those unkind words (he rarely does), I knew it hurt him for me to be that way.
I don't want to be the cause of erosion in our marriage!
"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones."  Proverbs 12:4
sMiLeS,

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Proverbs 7

If you are a lady, and have been reading Proverbs for awhile, you may think that you wouldn't get much out of chapter 7.
But today as I began reading through the familiar verses, I got a few verses in and started more or less skimming...  I knew these verses were about the strange woman, and that men are to beware of her.  And thought that didn't apply to me since I'm not a man.
Then I thought, wait.  All of God's word is for everyone, anyone.  So I started over, reading slower... and thinking...
Proverbs 7
1 My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.
2 Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.
3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:
5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.
6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,
9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:
10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.
11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)
13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,
14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.
15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.
21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death. 

As I read each day, I jot down verses or phrases from verses in a notebook, and sometimes my own thoughts as well.  Here are some of my notes from today:
Proverbs 7
1.  ... keep my words, lay up my commandments
2.  ...my law as the apple of thine eye
3.  Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
4.  Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman.
5.  That they may keep thee from the strange woman, which flattereth with her words.
-- That they may keep thee!
-- flattereth with her words!  That's all. To begin with...
I thought about these verses.  In verses 1-3, "apple of thine eye," "bind," and "table of thine heart" clearly tell us that we should love and embrace God's words.  His laws, even!  We should love his laws!  Wow.
Then verse 4 tells us that wisdom and understanding should be very close to us.  Our sister, our kinswoman.
Verse 5, That "they" (understanding and wisdom) may keep thee from the strange woman.
Understanding and wisdom can keep all of us from whatever sin that may snare us.

But how do we get understanding and wisdom???  
By studying God's word.  By heeding His words, and actually applying them to our lives.  By really searching for what He wants us to do.  And listening when he tells us.
Then we will want to give God our heart.  We will want Him to guide and direct us.  We will be open to anything He lays on our heart that we need to do, or to get rid of, or give up.  And if you're really searching His will and getting close to Him, it won't be nearly as hard to do as we once thought.
If you read Proverbs, you'll see a lot of verses about wisdom, knowledge, and understanding.  And the more you read, the more you will understand what you are reading!
(Read Proverbs 2 at the bottom of this post.)
7.  ...void of understanding (see v. 4-5)
8.  (Proverbs 4:14-15  "Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.  Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away.")
9-10.  If you're in the wrong place, you'll meet the wrong people.
Years ago, even when my kids were still very young, my husband took them to youth meetings, revivals, 1-day services, Christian camps, or even just the night services at these camps, and whatever he could find out about that had good preaching.
I didn't used to always go to these, but he did, and I'm so thankful.  Through church, we have met some wonderful people, and our kids have found some really great friends, and have gotten some great opportunities they wouldn't have had otherwise.
I'm glad my husband took them to the right places.
13.  escalates suddenly
15.  "diligently" -  but at first she flattered w/ her words.
19.  The goodman is not at home.  Beware of those who want to be secretive about any little thing, even if it seems harmless now.  (fb, Google+, texting, etc. Hiding things from parents, teachers, or spouse.) Or is dishonest in any way.
21.  flattery w/ speech, lips.  Trying to talk you into something.
23.  =(
24.  Hearken, attend -- listen up!
25.  Your heart goes first.
26.  many strong men. =(
So if you're a lady, watch out for other ladies who flatter with their words.  Stay in your Bible so you will recognize when something isn't quite right.  Beware of those who are secretive about anything.  Even gossip. When a woman gossips, they are putting someone else down in order to make themselves look/feel better.  We all have faults, but the gossipers won't tell you theirs; only those of others.

If you're a man, watch out for women who act as the strange woman in this chapter.  A woman who flatters with her words, paying you attention.

If you're a teenager, be careful of what friends you have.  Are they secretive?  Have an online account their parents don't know about?  Delete texts before parents can see them?  Pretend not to hear when their mom or dad calls them?  This is all dishonest.
Don't be "void of understanding."  Get in your Bible and read at least one chapter in Proverbs every day.  Read for understanding.  God will begin to change your heart, and you will draw closer to Him!


There are SO many verses in Proverbs about wisdom!
It's hard to choose, but since I was looking at Proverbs 4 a bit earlier, I'll put that chapter here.
1 Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding.
2 For I give you good doctrine, forsake ye not my law.
3 For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.
4 He taught me also, and said unto me, Let thine heart retain my words: keep my commandments, and live.
And these verses about wisdom and understanding!
5 Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth.
6 Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee.
7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
8 Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her.
9 She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee. 
10 Hear, O my son, and receive my sayings; and the years of thy life shall be many.
11 I have taught thee in the way of wisdom; I have led thee in right paths.
12 When thou goest, thy steps shall not be straitened; and when thou runnest, thou shalt not stumble.
13 Take fast hold of instruction; let her not go: keep her; for she is thy life.
14 Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.
15 Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away.
16 For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall.
17 For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence.
18 But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.
19 The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble.
20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
24 Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
25 Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.
26 Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.
27 Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil. 

Oh, and I really love Proverbs 2 also!  This may be my favorite.  =)
I love the If-Then's in the Bible.  Read carefully all of v. 1-9.
1 My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee;
2 So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding;
3 Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding;
4 If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures;
5 Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God.
6 For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.
7 He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly.
8 He keepeth the paths of judgment, and preserveth the way of his saints.
9 Then shalt thou understand righteousness, and judgment, and equity; yea, every good path.
And the when's.  Look at what happens when you get wisdom and knowledge!   
10 When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul;
11 Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:
12 To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;
13 Who leave the paths of uprightness, to walk in the ways of darkness;
14 Who rejoice to do evil, and delight in the frowardness of the wicked;
15 Whose ways are crooked, and they froward in their paths:
16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;
17 Which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God.
18 For her house inclineth unto death, and her paths unto the dead.
19 None that go unto her return again, neither take they hold of the paths of life.
20 That thou mayest walk in the way of good men, and keep the paths of the righteous.
21 For the upright shall dwell in the land, and the perfect shall remain in it.
22 But the wicked shall be cut off from the earth, and the transgressors shall be rooted out of it. 
I love Proverbs!!!

sMiLeS,


(hehe, this got long!)  =)

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

The Path We Follow to Destruction

I posted the other day about Sudden Destruction.
Proverbs 29:1 "He, that being often reproved hardeneth his neck, shall suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy." 
Sometimes we are so shocked by things we learn about a fellow Christian, but we know that none of us are immune to sin...
But how could it have happened???


This article tells The Path We Follow to Destruction.

Root: discontent

As I was reading this, I was thinking, I am pretty content with my life... then I realized that sometimes with my husband I am not. I get aggravated at certain things. And I realized I do the same with my kids.
We all have different personalities, and when we live together, personalities are bound to clash now and then. But I need to be content and overlook some things. Be more agreeable rather than getting aggravated at certain tendencies (not talking about disobedience).
Just mainly being discontent with who they are.:-[

Some friends and I recently talked about reading verses like Proverbs 29:1, and passing over verses like this, thinking they were for some really bad person.
But when I first read the above article, I was doing just what we had talked about!:P
Passing over looking at ME and thinking this must be for someone else.
We hear certain things all our lives, and come to think of certain verses and phrases from the preacher as applying to someone else.
But God wants our heart. In his eyes, all sin is sin. And it only takes a little for God to not truly have our heart. (It is the little foxes that spoil the vine. - Song of Solomon 2:15)
I heard an illustration once about a little sin. "Would you drink a glass of water that someone had spit in? It's only a little spit..."
When we compare ourselves to others, we think we're not nearly as bad, right? But compared to God's holiness... not so good after all.

It's amazing after having read Proverbs over and over (once a month, each chapter on its corresponding date), I keep finding new things, or old things that apply differently to a current situation. Either in life, or maybe an attitude.

I love Proverbs!  So like a mirror.

sMiLeS,

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

"Sudden Destruction"

"He, that being often reproved hardeneth his neck, shall suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy."  Proverbs 29:1
I just read this verse this morning, and then it was in an email devotional that I get - Daily in the Word.
Sudden Destruction
By Paul Chappell


Tuesday, Jan 29, 2013 
"He, that being often reproved hardeneth his neck, shall suddenly be destroyed, and that without remedy."  Proverbs 29:1

Bernard Madoff seemed to have it all. He lived the life of the fabulously wealthy in New York City. The securities trading company he founded when he graduated from college produced amazing returns for investors. He was tapped to serve as Chairman of the NASDAQ stock trading company. He rubbed elbows with the elite of the financial, political, and entertainment worlds. He enjoyed the best of everything that money could buy.

Yet all of Madoff’s apparent success was built on the foundation of a lie. His investment firm was nothing more than a giant Ponzi scheme that for decades depended on getting new investors to pay off the old ones while money was being siphoned off for the personal use of Madoff and his family. With shocking suddenness Madoff was arrested, tried, and convicted. He is today serving a 150-year sentence in federal prison.

One of the most effective lies of Satan is that we will get away with doing wrong. He convinces us that we will be the exception and can escape the consequences of sin. If we had an accurate assessment of the devastating results of sin in advance, we would be far more hesitant to cross the lines that God has drawn in His Word. Often we mistake the grace and forbearance of God that protects us from immediate punishment when we first do wrong as His permission to continue. Yet that very mercy is extended as a reminder to do right. As Paul wrote, “the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance” (Romans 2:4).

The only cure for sin is confession and repentance. No cover up will hide sin from the eyes of God, and if we continue stiff necked in doing wrong, eventually judgment will fall. The best way to avoid sudden destruction is to respond to the first warnings of reproof.

Today’s Proverbs Precept:
No sin stays hidden forever. It is always wise to confess and repent before destruction falls.

I have been thinking along these lines lately... Proverbs is a great "mirror"!!!  
I get lax and start doing "little" things, and think, well it isn't so bad.
:(
Skimping on my time w/ God is the root cause (or putting it off till later in the day, then feeling rushed), and that causes a host of other things.
But then when I start getting closer to God again, those little things stand out.

Little things can also cause me to be dissatisfied, can affect my attitude, and I get grumpy toward my hubby and kids... Which as you know ends up affecting their attitudes as well. :-[

This devotional is talking more about hidden sins, but it all starts somewhere. Little things can grow into big things without realizing it. When you get further and further away from God, you begin to get hard-hearted.
No one is immune to "falling" or any "big" sin. It begins in the heart, with something the devil will tell us isn't important.

"The best way to avoid sudden destruction is to respond to the first warnings of reproof."

sMiLeS,

Monday, November 26, 2012

A little bird told me...

"Curse not the king, no not in thy thought; and curse not the rich in thy bedchamber: for a bird of the air shall carry the voice, and that which hath wings shall tell the matter."
Ecclesiastes 10:20

 "...be sure your sin will find you out."
Numbers 32:23


Saturday, November 24, 2012

Por aquí pasó un caballo/The Learnables

The Learnables - books with no writing, only pictures. 
Basic Structures - has pictures with sentences

I must say first, that I really do not recommend the students looking at how the Spanish word is spelled until waaayy after they really have the pronunciation down pat.  (I mean, we teach babies how to talk long before we teach them to read, lol.)  😄

Update: Looking at the computer versions on The Learnables website, however, I am not sure if they are adding in the written sentences now, or if the samples shown are to go along with the second book, Basic Structures.  
You may contact them for current information. 


I recommend caution here... I know that for some people, (this is from experience) seeing the spelling can actually make them start mispronouncing words, after they had already learned them correctly.  
It may be better to do as I accidentally ended up doing, not even showing them anything until well into Lesson 4 - nearly eight weeks in.  🙂
It did work out fine, even though they had some misconceptions early on.  But pronunciation was great, especially for one kid, lol.  

Possibly a better option, if you have good pronunciation yourself, is to simply pronounce each individual word when introduced in The Learnables.  
I'm talking about the verbs in sentences that are not introduced individually in the lesson.  (You can look in the second book, Basic Structures, if you are having trouble catching all the words.) 
The main vocabulary words are spoken alone and should present no trouble for students, but verbs and connecting words are added into the sentences and sometimes consist of more than one word, and are run together, just like we do in the English language. 

A real-life example is how I learned this little rhyme as a teenager, and did not know until well into adulthood when I decided to google it one day, that I had some things wrong, lol. 

► Watch here
 
Por aquí pasó un caballo, (A horse passed by here)
con las patas al revés. (with his feet backwards)
Si me dices cuántos tiene, (If you ask me how many he has)
te diré que diez y seis. (I will say 16)
uno, dos, tres, cuatro, (1, 2, 3, 4)
cinco, seis, siete, ocho, (5, 6, 7, 8)
nueve, diez, once, doce, (9, 10, 11, 12)
trese, catorce, quince, diez y seis! (13, 14, 15, 16!)


This is a hand-clapping game I learned as a young teenager from my best friend and her sisters.  Their dad, a native Spanish speaker, was my Spanish teacher in high school.  
I learned this rhyme by sound, not knowing how anything was spelled, or even what most of the individual words were.  I did know what the rhyme was about, but it was like one long string of sounds with pauses at the ends of each phrase.  

The other day I was around two cute little Spanish girls that knew no English, and I wanted to teach this to them!  (It would also have been fun if they already knew it!)  But because it had been well over 20 years since I had learned it, I was unsure whether I had it right, and didn't want to accidentally say something bad!
So I called my best friend, and YES!  I did know it!  Mostly.  I had an e and i reversed (saying ti dere instead of te diré), and left off the s from dices in the third line.
I also didn't realize al revés was not arre bes, and that Por aquí pasó un caballo was not pora kipa sun caballo.  Which is how I had been thinking of it all this time.  (I have no idea if those are even real words!)  Pasó un is run together so that the o is barely or not even heard.

Even though having learned it well, I am now having a hard time wrapping my mind around the individual words I see written!   But other than about four words, I already knew what each word meant (although I didn't realize it until I saw them all written out).  But in my mind, I still see the "old" words I had formed in my head long ago.

If I had been told each individual word, that would have helped greatly.  


Which brings me to The Learnables.
(Click ↑ to see my review, and video of a partial lesson.) 
About three days into the first lesson (usually a lesson can take about 2 weeks to learn), my son came through the door spouting an entire sentence in Spanish with a perfect accent!  La señora está comiendo la manzana. Sounded perfect to me!  😊 
So I was pretty pleased.

But recently, my daughter wanted to know how to say a phrase in Spanish that had words we hadn't yet learned.  We talked about how to say several other things as well, and I discovered that she had really misunderstood some of the words from the native Spanish speaker on The Learnables CD.  😯
(Similar to when my oldest daughter was small and wrote "cow" as "cal." LOL!  Okay, sounds the same!  But actually not even close.) 

This was a little dismaying to me since we are already in Lesson 4!  Nearly eight weeks!
With The Learnables, you learn one word at a time, then put them together in phrases, then sentences.  
But I discovered that my son thought of "está comiendo"  (is eating) as "estaco miendo."  Hmph.
But even if the purpose of not seeing the words is so that you won't mispronounce them, your mind still will think of how they are spelled.  Maybe not actually spelling them out in your head, but it hears the sounds and interprets this as letters.  Cow and cal.  😄

So I let them look at the first couple of pages in the Basic Structures book (2nd book in the series), which has pictures and sentences that use words from the lessons in The Learnables.  My daughter was amazed at how the words were spelled.

We also went over vowel sounds, and I gave them English words to help them remember how the vowel can sound in Spanish:  a in father; e in bed; i in pita (pita bread); u in nuke.  The Spanish o is tricky.  With our Southern accent, I can tell them it sounds like the beginning of oil, but I have no idea how to get that across in written instructions.  lol.

I told them how a rolled r sounds kind of like t or d.  Otto and aro sound very similar, except for slight difference in the ending o's.

Since they knew how to pronounce the numbers 1-10, I then went over the spelling of those and we sounded them out according to what we had learned about vowel pronunciation.  I also wrote down several made up words to see if they could read them according to what we had learned about vowels.

We then went over orally come (com-eh) and comiendo (eats, eating) and bebe and bebiendo (drinks, drinking) since they had learned both of those forms separately, and may not have connected them.  
And that trae (trah-ehis brings, and pone (po-nehis puts. My daughter had said she was having a hard time catching whatever it was the waiter did, which was trae.  El camarero trae más café.  (The waiter brings more coffee.)
The sentences are getting longer now in Lesson 4.  El camarero pone la taza de café sobre la mesa del hombre. (The waiter puts the cup of coffee on the table of the man, i.e, the man's table.  De and el are joined as del.)

The kids do fine at listening and knowing what is being said, but still were not quite catching all the words, and sometimes were making 2 words in their head where there should be one, and vice versa. 

So I'm making some changes, but first we will be going back over all the words they've learned in the previous lessons.
We will have actual objects (when possible), and they will be doing things I say.  Drink, drinking; eat, eating; bring, put, etc, different objects.  We'll spend a few days reading some things aloud, like the numbers 1-10 and some short words I make up, working on vowel pronunciation.  

I'll spend as much time as needed before jumping back into Lesson 4, and then we will start my new plan.
After letting the kids listen to a new lesson for a couple of days, we will take a day to go over aloud the individual words, such as action words, etc, that are in the sentences but are not pronounced alone in the lesson.
    
After a week (or more?), I may let them see the written words...  I will just read aloud from the Basic Structures book while they read along silently, and they can try it when they're ready.  I will also make up some of my own sentences with those words. 
►►If this creates a problem, we may just only do orally, no reading, with me pronouncing individual verbs or other words that are not introduced individually in the lesson.  

If things go well, we will review briefly for a couple more days (with them continuing the CD) just to head off any misconceptions.  
We will keep reviewing letter sounds so that eventually they will actually be able to read even unfamiliar Spanish words.  This is my "starter" idea.  I'll know more how to proceed as we get into it, since as usual, homeschool moms tweak as they go, adjusting to fit the needs of each child.


Some things I added:
The spelling of the words in each lesson is listed in the back of the Basic Structures book, but I wrote a few verbs (see at the bottom of this post) on my small dry erase board and let them copy them in their notebook.  This helped them notice the endings of the verbs.

If you are having trouble with the verbs, for conjugation, I use SpanishDict.com/conjugate.  (currently have to scroll way down to see it)  I just use the first row down, which is present tense.
If I don't know what a verb means, I use the translate section of SpanishDict.com, find the "to ____" verb, then go back and type the Spanish word into the conjugate section of the website.

We aren't memorizing the conjugation, but after a few regular (not irregular) verbs, they saw the pattern.  So each time a new verb is introduced, we go over the differences orally, and they will be able to hear the difference of se ríe and se ríen. (he laughs, they laugh)

Learn to hear the difference.  
Sometimes the I, you, he, they, part of the sentence will have different forms.  For example, one sentence may say, The man is eating.  (El hombre está comiendo).  The next sentence with the same picture may say, He is eating.  (El está comiendo)  The verb form will be the same in both sentences.  

Hearing the endings of the verb will help you understand who/how many is laughing, eating, etc. 
Note the word endings below:

ríer - to laugh
I laugh -- yo río (REE-yo)
you laugh -- tú ríes  (REE-es)
he/she laughs -- él/ella ríe  (REE-eh)
we laugh -- nosotros reímos (re-EE-mos)
they laugh -- ellos/ellas ríen (REE-en)

poner - to put 
I put -- yo pongo 
you put -- tú pones
he/she put -- él/ella pone
we put -- nosotros ponemos
they put -- ellos/ellas ponen

traer - to bring 
I bring -- yo traigo
you bring -- tú traes
he/she brings -- él/ella trae
we bring -- nosotros traemos
they bring -- ellos/ellas traen

Again, if seeing the spelling starts to cause a problem, just orally explain the differences in conjugating a few verbs as you come to them (and only in the forms learned so far), and practice them so that they can get the pattern.  

The verb forms introduced first - is eating (está comiendo) and is drinking (está bebiendo). 

Next is eats, drinks, puts, brings. (come, bebe, pone, trae).  
At this time, point out the difference between está comeindo and come, and está bebiendo and bebe.  

The next verb form introduced is plural.  The verbs usually end in the letter n. 
The man and the boy are eating.  La señora y el nino están comeindo. (not está)
The firefighters come.  Los bomberos vienen.  (Also notice the plural form of el = los)

There are "feminine" and "masculine" words that have either la or el (the) in front of them, and when plural, are las or los.  See the two sentences above. 
Words ending in o are usually masculine, and words ending in a are usually feminine.  (One exception is la mano.)   Words ending in letters other than a or o will need to be learned as you go.  

Students really do not need to know the spelling at this point.  They just need to listen for the differences, and will begin to catch them more easily as they repeat the lessons.  🙂

sMiLeS,

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Thanksgiving!

Bethany (15½), Rebekah (almost 18), my niece Abigail (almost 17)



Yumminess preparation in progress...



Family football every Thanksgiving =)











Great catch!


sMiLeS,

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Physical Science, Module 3, The Atmosphere

•What we did 2010
Videos for this module


In learning about the atmosphere, I wanted to do a few more things about air this time as well as the experiments we did in 2010.  This post is only about the new ones.  =)
Air presses on us from all sides.  We don't feel it, but it is there.  That is why if you take a large, thin board and wave it in the air, you feel resistance.

Flatten an Index Card
I had the kids fold an index card in half and flex it a few times, then place it on the table so that it made a low "tent."  They could blow under it to make the tent flatten.
This was because blowing some air molecules from under the index card temporarily allowed the air above the card to have more pressure than the air under the card.

Rising Paper
I also had them place a short strip of paper on their chin and blow, causing air molecules above the strip to be temporarily displaced, making the strip of paper to rise.  This is also like air blowing over the wing of a plane.



Straw Fountain
The boys loved this one!
And as you may have guessed by now, this is because of pushing air molecules out of the way, allowing the air pressure that is pushing down on the water in the cup to be temporarily greater than the air pressure pushing down at the top of the straw.
(We taped the inside straws in place before adding water.)







Rebellious Paper Wad (p. 14)
This works if you tell the kids to blow HARD! =D




We also did the can crusher experiment from the 2nd edition, but we're using the first edition and had no directions except for things I found online, so maybe that was why this one didn't work like it was intended?
No crushing.

But... the can did suck up the icy water.
How?
Since the molecules in the can were hot, they were more spread out.
When we inverted the can into icy water, this cooled the molecules in the can, causing them to take up less space.  Since they took up less space, it drew the water up into the can.

LOL, the hot stove eye looks PINK!  How funny.


►Video of how it is supposed to work.
(You'll see my name under a comment, but my comment was apparently deleted... In case you're wondering what my name is doing there!)

►Find more air pressure experiments here.


sMiLeS,